Domina Dea Speaks

As promised, here are my presentation notes for Urethral Sounds 101.  If you have any specific questions, please don’t hesitate to send me an email.
DomCon Atlanta 10/10/2009 1:30 / Chardonnay Room
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Sounds sets come in a couple of varieties, for beginners, I recommend Rosebuds and Dittles sets.  When you are completely confident in your [...]

I was IMing with a friend last night and we were tossing S&M themed haiku back and forth .  He is of the opinion that the only correct format is the  3 line 5-7-5 format, the first line is five syllables, the second a total of seven syllables and the third five again.  This format [...]

Since I relocated to Atlanta in 2004 I’ve been aware of this event, Dragon*Con.   I have actually actively avoided Downtown Atlanta during the long Labor Day weekend, primarily because a bunch of geeks celebrating, World of Warcraft, SciFi fandom, and what I perceived to be a gamers orgy just didn’t appeal to me.  [...]

There are few resources in the Lifestyle where one can find useful information and ask questions about what laws may affect what we do.  Particularly as a professional Dominatrix, I have to be very careful about the activities I engage in with my clients.  For obvious legal and moral reasons, I don’t engage in anything [...]

This week the Roman Catholic Church published a prayer for married couples to recite before sex. This morning, my SO, grimjacx, sent me a link to this article along with a note that said, “typically, i pray that you wont hurt me. too badly.”

Okay, I admit it, I have a few guilty pleasures. We all have a few of those little things we might not want to admit to for fear we’ll be judged harshly. TLC’s “18 Kids & Counting” happens to be one of mine. I can’t begin to explain why, maybe its because [...]

BDSM is a pretty large umbrella, it covers a myriad of fetishes, if you don’t believe me, take a look at the list of fetishes on BDSM websites like FetLife.com. There are well over 500 different fetishes listed on the site from Abduction to Zentai Yeah, I had to look that last one [...]

I learned a valuable lesson about patience last month. If you had the opportunity to visit my old website, you know I was well overdue for something that better matched my particular brand of domination. I hired a wonderful website designer to create a new website for me. We met in late [...]